A live & interactive discussion on end of life care and will explore ideas on how the think about it and approach it! In 2010, Dr. Martha Calihan's husband of 30 years began to die. Being combination wife, physician and founder of Five Stones Healing Arts and Wellness Center, she did the only thing she could do – she meticulously and compassionately described what that was like.
Dr. Calihan is a Board Certified Integrative and Holistic Medicine Physician and a Certified Functional Medicine Practitioner.
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Positive Aging Champions offering Hospice and End of Life Support
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12:04:51 From Carla Andersen : Hi Steve and everyone. This is Carla Hope Andersen RN of Happy Hearts Home Care. Great to be here today.
12:05:47 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community :
Connect with Positive Aging Community Champions providing End of Life Support
12:06:49 From Eileen Spinella to Hosts and panelists : Good Afternoon Everyone,
12:07:50 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : https://www.fivestoneswellness.com/
12:08:39 From Eileen Spinella to Hosts and panelists : On behalf of the Goodwin Hospice team, thank you for having this great, important conversation. Eileen Spinella, Goodwin Hospice Marketing Manager
12:09:07 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : A DEATH LIVED
by Martha Calihan MD https://store.bookbaby.com/book/a-death-lived
12:09:34 From Tiffany Plante to Hosts and panelists : AGREED on Cynthia Shannon’s remarks. We saw Dr. Callaghan in November and she was remarkable and so inspiring. You have a few on from Capital Caring Health this afternoon! ????. Dr Callaghan’s book is such a great story and importance of conversations to have.
12:09:58 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : From Tiffany Plante AGREED on Cynthia Shannon’s remarks. We saw Dr. Callaghan in November and she was remarkable and so inspiring. You have a few on from Capital Caring Health this afternoon! ????. Dr Callaghan’s book is such a great story and importance of conversations to have.
12:11:51 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : From Eileen Spinella 12:08 PM
On behalf of the Goodwin Hospice team, thank you for having this great, important conversation. Eileen Spinella, Goodwin Hospice Marketing Manager
12:22:04 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : What Are Palliative Care and Hospice Care? https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/what-are-palliative-care-and-hospice-care
12:22:57 From Dixcy Bosley to Hosts and panelists : Can you explain the specific reasons why so many doctors are incapable of referring to hospice sooner than later? Fee for service medicine ? Fear of telling bad news? Time involved in telling bad news? Not understanding what hospice does ? I refer to hospice WITHOUT a doctors order , when unable to get it, and let hospice assess and make decision of eligibility . Their hospice doctor can enroll them when the oncologists/ PCP refuses to refer.
12:27:14 From Louis Tenenbaum to Hosts and panelists : Great conversation. I found many clients who really wan ted straight info about the process and progress they faced. Though I was am a modifications and equipment contractor I was often asked questions far behind my area and expertise with the statement, “You are speaking truth to us. Many of the medical folks are avoiding the real story.”
12:28:07 From Dixcy Bosley to Hosts and panelists : Your personal experience has made you a better doctor. I always ask doctors what would you do for your spouse to help personalize their plan of care w my clients
12:28:17 From Louis Tenenbaum to Hosts and panelists : Oops, Louis signed is as ssuan
12:30:46 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : Compassion & Choices
We're an organization dedicated to improving care, expanding options and empowering everyone to chart their end-of-life journey. https://compassionandchoices.org/
12:31:18 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : Final Exit Network https://finalexitnetwork.org/
12:31:40 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : Understanding End-of-Life Options, including Medical Aid in Dying https://www.retirementlivingsourcebook.com/videos/understanding-end-of-life-options-including-medical-aid-in-dying
12:32:02 From Dixcy Bosley to Hosts and panelists : If you support Medical Aide in Dying law and you live in MD, please contact your representatives b/c the vote is coming up again
12:32:14 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : From Dixcy Bosley to All Panelists 12:32 PM
If you support Medical Aide in Dying law and you live in MD, please contact your representatives b/c the vote is coming up again
12:34:01 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : The Future of Medicine For Older Adults https://www.retirementlivingsourcebook.com/videos/the-future-of-medicine-for-older-adults
12:39:28 From Carla Andersen : open communication about how to be present and what type of support the "dearly departing" wants is a great place to start and recommit to day by day.
12:39:53 From Nicole Largent to Hosts and panelists : Hi there! Curious if Dr. Calihan has any experience or thoughts on hospice music therapy? Off topic from the current conversation, so no worries if we can’t get to it! ????
12:40:36 From Nicole Largent to Hosts and panelists : Also I had to miss a bit so please disregard if this has already come up too.
12:41:20 From Gary Wederspahn : A Stanford Medical School survey of 1.100 MDs reported that about 90% would decline ANY of the interventions commonly provided at the end-of-life (expect palliative care). Why is that?
12:44:02 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : Five Wishes
The nation’s only national advance care planning program. Providing peace-of-mind for more than 25 years. https://www.fivewishes.org/
12:46:56 From Carla Andersen : I provide Reiki and light massage to my clients and have found it can induce great relaxation and more restful breathing, especially when person is restless. Reiki can be without hands-on for a person who doesn't desire touch.
12:47:35 From Adele Logan-Galen : Carla: please include your contact info.
12:49:16 From Carla Andersen : thank you Adele. Steve added it earlier. cell 757-818-3679. smoothmovesbodywork@yahoo.com is my email
12:53:50 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : Some previous discussions on death and dying https://www.retirementlivingsourcebook.com/videos?q=death
12:54:32 From Carla Andersen : that's my greatest wish too. Life is terminal and children should be exposed to these conversations too.
12:54:46 From Dixcy Bosley to Hosts and panelists : Death Cafes / Death of Dinner. Lots of options in DMV to discuss death
12:54:59 From Dixcy Bosley to Hosts and panelists : Death over Dinner
12:55:09 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : Links to our Positive Aging Community Champions offering support https://www.retirementlivingsourcebook.com/search_results?sid=31&tid=83
12:55:39 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : From Dixcy Bosley to All Panelists 12:54 PM
Death Cafes / Death of Dinner. Lots of options in DMV to discuss death
Death over Dinne
12:56:28 From Dixcy Bosley to Hosts and panelists : The Conversation Project
12:56:30 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : https://deathoverdinner.org/
12:57:01 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : https://theconversationproject.org/
12:57:09 From M. Jane Markley : M. Jane Markley Consulting, helping people complete their advance directives and have the conversation so that they can give the gift to their loved ones. www.mjmarkley.com Any questions, let me know. Thanks.
12:57:19 From Eileen Spinella to Hosts and panelists : Goodwin Hospice offers a seminar on "Meeting You Where You Are: Having the Conversation about Advance Care Planning".
12:57:58 From Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : From Eileen Spinella to All Panelists 12:57 PM
Goodwin Hospice offers a seminar on "Meeting You Where You Are: Having the Conversation about Advance Care Planning".
12:58:43 From Kathleen Steed to Hosts and panelists : I learn more every session on dying. Now, I need to take action. Thank you again for presenting these seminars.
12:58:54 From Betty Bahadori : Thank you Martha and all those who shared.
12:59:01 From Barbara Weidhorn : Thank you. Helpful info.
12:59:09 From Tracy Bland : Thank you, great presentation!
12:59:14 From Barbara Korenblit : Thank you!
12:59:19 From Kitty Devilbiss : thank you. this was an amazing presentation.
12:59:22 From Adele Logan-Galen : Thank you!!
12:59:37 From Dixcy Bosley to Hosts and panelists : Teaching others how to die is healing your grief
12:59:41 From JEAN IVORY : Thank you, Dr Calihan.
13:00:16 From Susan Weller : Thank you Dr. Calihan for this insightful conversation!
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