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Posted by Positive Aging Community on 09/20/2023

Dementia Man: An Existential Journey - Discussion with Sam Simon - Playwright & Actor


The critically acclaimed autobiographical story of a man who faces his diagnosis of Alzheimer’s disease by actor and playwright Samuel A. Simon. Simon takes the stage as a man facing his cognitive decline and asks the hard questions of what to do next in the face of what he calls “an existential journey.” It is a peek into the head and heart of the struggle with a broken medical system and a personal and family challenge.

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Brief outline of discussion

  • 0:00 Personal experiences, career, and health challenges.
  • 4:44 Cancer journey and its impact on partners.
  •  9:37 Dementia diagnosis and treatment journey.
  •  16:53 Dementia diagnosis and suicide prevention.
  •  24:03 Living with dementia and finding purpose.
  •  29:20 Disability rights and accessibility.
  •  34:53 Cognitive impairment and accessibility in theater.
  •  40:45 Dementia diagnosis and support.
  •  47:51 Mental health, cognitive decline, and improvisation.
  •  54:37 Dementia, Parkinson's, and Alzheimer's disease.
  •  1:00:26 Dementia care and support.

Chat Transcript

12:06:08     From  Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : https://goodwinliving.org/stronger-memory/

12:06:55     From  Muhammad Salman : Greetings from Alzheimer'sPakistan

12:07:51     From  Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : https://www.dementiaman.com/

12:09:00     From  Jessica Fredericksen   to   Hosts and panelists : Hi all! So excited to hear from Sam and Susan today. If you have any questions about StrongerMemory feel free to chat or to email me at jfredericksen@goodwinliving.org

12:09:55     From  Teri Jacobson   to   Hosts and panelists : Jessica, Do you service Anne Arundel County?

12:11:48     From  Jessica Fredericksen   to   Hosts and panelists : We provide some virtual groups and will do virtual training to anyone wanting to start their own group! We would love to connect with Anne Arundel County or include you in one of our virtual groups!

12:12:22     From  Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : World Alzheimer's Day is September 21, 2023 https://www.alz.org/about/awareness-initiatives/world-alzheimers-day

12:15:31     From  Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : The Actual Dance

Love's Ultimate Journey Through Breast Cancer https://www.theactualdance.com/book1.html

12:18:57     From  Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : From Teri Jacobson to All Panelists 12:09 PM

Jessica, Do you service Anne Arundel County?

From Jessica Fredericksen to All Panelists 12:11 PM

We provide some virtual groups and will do virtual training to anyone wanting to start their own group! We would love to connect with Anne Arundel County or include you in one of our virtual groups!

12:22:41     From  Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : https://www.dementiaman.com/performance-calendar.html

12:22:47     From  mary busse : I can testify to the value of Stronger Memory.  I make a lot fewer trips up and down the stairs because I don't remember why I am there and remember more names since I began the program at its inception.  I still have episodes of word loss, but it often comes to me if I just give it a bit of time.  I like this idea..."my hard drive is full." The search takes a bit longer.  I now have more confidence that I will remember what I need.

12:25:14     From  Teri Jacobson   to   Hosts and panelists : Jessica,  I would very much like to become a facilitator in AAC.  I am a CDP and an ADDCT through NCCDP already but find the support is as important, if not more so, than education.  I have worked inside memory care communities and work with private clients as well.

12:29:57     From  Jamie MacDonald : This sounds so much like my mother’s experience……..it’s so frustrating.

12:31:43     From  Jessica Fredericksen   to   Hosts and panelists : Thank you, Mary for your endorsement of StrongerMemory! We love having you in our virtual group.

12:31:49     From  Lori Stahl : Thank you Sam and Susan for your honesty and courage in sharing your story. I too run a virtual early-stage support group and would be honored to have you share your story with our group.

12:32:20     From  Deborah Smith : Went to a neurologist to talk about things I was seeing things that concerned me. He told me to enjoy my hallucinations.  I do have migraine with aura and he referred me to a headache doctor.

12:32:40     From  Jessica Fredericksen   to   Hosts and panelists : Teri I would love to connect- send me an email at jfredericksen@goodwinliving.org and we can chat! I'm also a CDP and ADDCT and StrongerMemory adds an extra tool I get to share with families and individuals.

12:32:46     From  Vivian Ling : My husband's neurologist did not even deliver the bad news - the diagnosis - himself, but assigned it to a nurse practitioner who met with us 6 weeks after the neurological testing!

12:34:09     From  Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : Suicide Prevention Month https://www.nami.org/Get-Involved/Awareness-Events/Suicide-Prevention-Month

12:39:57     From  Vivian Ling : Sam's sense of humor makes him an outlier!

12:40:21     From  Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : SOLO ARTS HEAL is a vision born from artists’ inspiring true stories that celebrate overcoming adversity, surviving emotional, mental, and physical challenges, and becoming health advocates… https://www.soloartsheal.com/

12:43:31     From  Jane West Walsh   to   Hosts and panelists : Living with purpose while experiencing dementia is a quote to recall! 


I volunteer with an Arden Courts memory care assisted living community leading Jewish Shabbat dinner programs and holiday events and I’ve learned that through singing together there are many moments that show that learning and joy continues through the years living with dementia. Family and friends matter - and making new friends is still possible! Light in the darkness exists.

12:44:11     From  Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : From Jane West Walsh to All Panelists 12:43 PM

Living with purpose while experiencing dementia is a quote to recall! 


I volunteer with an Arden Courts memory care assisted living community leading Jewish Shabbat dinner programs and holiday events and I’ve learned that through singing together there are many moments that show that learning and joy continues through the years living with dementia. Family and friends matter - and making new friends is still possible! Light in the darkness exists.

12:44:29     From  Norman Reiss : Please send out recording of today's session

12:45:55     From  Myra Leysorek   to   Hosts and panelists : Yes, I’d like it too.  This is a wonderful program.

12:46:23     From  susan kimmel   to   Hosts and panelists : In the UK, all government employees have training in dementia and learn how to help people navigate.  This means policemen to librarians.

12:46:29     From  Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : Recording, chat and all links to Sams details will be available this afternoon at www.proaging.com

12:47:07     From  Joseph Lim   to   Hosts and panelists : I am late getting here. Will this be available in its entirety?

12:47:46     From  Barbara Ryan   to   Hosts and panelists : are there any future showings of the play?

12:48:20     From  Joseph Lim   to   Hosts and panelists : Excellent question Ms Jamie

12:49:30     From  eileen wilkinson   to   Hosts and panelists : Have you found the dementia friendly designation or restaurants in Herndon is helpful, if so, how? (sound and lights?) Eileen Wilkinson WELLartsinfo@gmail.com

12:50:13     From  Deborah Rittenhouse : There are museum tour guides as cognitive facilators. And those who work in creative expression classes guiding care givers and those challenged with cognitive decline

12:50:24     From  Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : UPCOMING PERFORMANCES https://www.dementiaman.com/performance-calendar.html

12:51:00     From  Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : From susan kimmel to All Panelists 12:46 PM

In the UK, all government employees have training in dementia and learn how to help people navigate.  This means policemen to librarians.

12:51:17     From  Deborah Smith : Thank you !!

12:52:34     From  Jessica Fredericksen   to   Hosts and panelists : Great point, Sam! Love the idea of a cognitive navigator.

12:53:41     From  Jane West Walsh   to   Hosts and panelists : The experience of doing improv strikes me as another area for finding opportunity to grow and learn to cope better when in cognitive decline, as Sam Simon explored.

12:53:51     From  Jessica Fredericksen : Great point, Sam! Love the idea of a cognitive navigator.

12:55:16     From  Arlene Williams : Thank you so much Sam and Susan.

12:56:01     From  Muhammad Salman : it's really amazing Sam & Susan

12:56:17     From  Jessica Fredericksen : Thank you Sam, for sharing your experience so openly. Truly inspiring!

12:56:34     From  paula david : My daughter was recently in an airport in Peru and saw a display referring to Sunflower lanyards for folks with hidden disabilities that attendants can discreetly help if necessary.

12:56:48     From  eileen wilkinson   to   Hosts and panelists : Bless both of you for your transparency - great work Sam and Susan!

12:58:10     From  Joseph Lim   to   Hosts and panelists : ????

12:58:22     From  Joseph Lim   to   Hosts and panelists : Thank You for this

12:58:24     From  Tracey Kelley   to   Hosts and panelists : Thank you for your sensitivity to the subside topic as it is a problem for both young and old and is devastating to families.

13:00:29     From  Deborah Smith : Thank you Jamie !!

13:00:48     From  Jamie MacDonald : ????

13:01:26     From  Deborah Smith : Some meds I am taking now can cause cognitive issues

13:02:25     From  Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : Real Life Story: An Amazing Healthcare Recovery: From Nursing Home to Hospice to Independence https://www.retirementlivingsourcebook.com/videos/real-life-story-an-amazing-healthcare-recovery-from-nursing-home-to-hospice-to-independence

13:03:03     From  Myra Leysorek   to   Hosts and panelists : Thank you for the very good program.  I have a new understanding of early dementia.

13:09:01     From  Jessica Fredericksen : I LOVE Reimagining Dementia! They are a fantastic group!

13:09:09     From  Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : Reimagining Dementia: A Creative Coalition for Justice is an international group of people living with dementia, carers/care partners, family and community members, dementia activists and allies, health professionals, advocates, artists, academics, policymakers, and others. https://www.reimaginingdementia.com/

13:09:22     From  Barbara Ryan   to   Hosts and panelists : article in the Washington Post today about "The cafe of mistaken memories" (or something like that) - a cafe in Japan that features folks with dementia as servers once/week

13:09:44     From  Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : From Barbara Ryan to All Panelists 01:09 PM

article in the Washington Post today about "The cafe of mistaken memories" (or something like that) - a cafe in Japan that features folks with dementia as servers once/week

13:10:49     From  Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : Jennifer Wexton confronts a grave diagnosis with typical good grace https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2023/09/19/jennifer-wexton-progressive-supranuclear-palsy/

13:12:30     From  Steve Gurney - ProAging Community : I am so excited that Ginger Smith is in the audience today!!! Amazing stories Sam and Ginger!!! 

I'm the woman who recovered from being on hospice dying. I love your story and Steve for giving my story respect. Ginger

13:14:26     From  Jamie MacDonald : Your optimism and sense of purpose are inspiring, and I also think play a role in your ability to continue to do this important work.

13:14:42     From  Sharron DuBose : Thank you! Very informative!

13:14:50     From  Shoaleh Alai : Wow, this is  amazing. Thanks

13:17:10     From  Jamie MacDonald : Susan just knocked it out of the park with her remarks!!

13:17:21     From  eileen wilkinson   to   Hosts and panelists : You are a beautiful inspirational couple, golden words susan!

13:17:33     From  Jane West Walsh   to   Hosts and panelists : This is so illuminating- thank you Sam and Ms Simon!!!

13:17:39     From  Jamie MacDonald : Thank you both, and Steve, for this and all that you do.

13:17:46     From  Deborah Smith : Thank you Steve, Sam and Susan

13:18:18     From  Leslie McTyre : Thank you all!!

13:18:26     From  eileen wilkinson   to   Hosts and panelists : Medical theater is fabulous


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